How To Live Gracefully ?

 Asslam O Aliakum! 

hopefully you are at very well my readers. I am here again to answer the question "How To Live Gracefully?". This is the common question that raise in every mind even in my own. I didn't ask anyone to answer this question, i don't know why. But at last I found its answer. Yeah, I am going to tell you. Graceful life is come with our thoughts. When we utilize our mind that someone is digging hole for his failure and smile that at last he will fail. In this case, we are beating our soul. This is cruel with our soul, because basically our soul is soft and very kind heart. Overall our human nature is very beautiful, but we make it hard or keep it soft. But this is another topic. Our soul can't bear cruel on it and becomes crack soul and our life crack too. We can't make us happy and sorrowful to our soul at same time. This is the one example, you have lot of examples in your mind, so why are you keeping them. Get rid of these jealous or any type of thought which is related to loss, harmful etc. 

These are some rules which can lead your life towards grace:

1. Think Gracefully

Yeah, graceful life is directly related to your graceful thoughts. Lets imagine with me that there are 2 men. A and B are their temporary names of these 2 men. A always thinks that his father is very poor and now I can't be rich. I will die with no food and no luxury. In this thinking, A doesn't go for higher opportunities and just waiting for job after his intermediate and after  years of wait he said that all jobs are for rich people who can give bribe. And his neighbour B is orphan his mother is working in 2 homes and get some bread for him at end of day and use same pieces on tomorrow's morning. When B grow up, he goes to government school and learn, learn and more learn. He believe in his own attempts. He offer prayers regularly and beg his success from God. He never thinks that he can be fail. He see himself on peak of Everst. He helps others in his whole life. He never thinks that he can remain unsuccessful. At the end of the attempts or wait, B is successful person and A is unsuccessful. Why A is unsuccessful? why are you surprise guys? A never think about his success then he can never  be successful. 

2. Forgive Please

It is impossible guys that no one hurts you in between your birth and death.That is the opportunity that makes you graceful. Yeah, forgive these people and move on. I am not saying that if you got deception from one person and you allow him/her to betray you again. But I am saying that forgive these people and become same as you were. Then at the end of every night, you will feel happiness, grace and much more thing in your ownself, but don't go in circle of pride. Remember that pride and proud are two different words with very different meanings. "Pride hath a fall" is famous maxim that I learned in english story writing and got 04/10 marks. Yeah, I got these marks, because I didn't write moral of story at the end of story, so you should remember that you're nothing. When you Forgive others then devil becomes angry and must try to realize you that you are great men/women of history and this is called pride which destroy you in such manner that you can't estimate time from peak to decline. 

Be Humble Always

3. Try Hard To Get Goal

If you are living on earth then must you will seek for financial stability. Financial stability leads you to be high achiever and then your decision makes your goals. And you always try to get goals. But why sometime you fails? Yeah, because you didn't devote your life to your goals. Yeah, if you really want to get goals in this life then go for devotion and get these goals. I have very interesting thing to show you. My father is school teacher and he has very learning story of life. I will write on his life must. Because his life is leading my life. Now listen that my father's colleague tells him that there are two types of try:

1. Hard Working
2. Melancholia ( Native lang: Junoon )

3.1 Hard Working

He said that hard working can never fall in vain. Your hard work must become fruitful. But this isn't must that if you are hard working for engineering because you can live graceful but this isn't must that you become good engineer and you get reward of your hardworking in ones lucky draw. Are you surprised? Why you're surprised? This can be. 

3.2 Melancholia

 If you have passion and Melancholia  for engineering then you will be the best engineer of the world. Yes this is must that will done. 

Conclusion:

If you want to live gracefully then these rules will help you.